Are feelings your friend?

I have often thought of emotional independence and control/stability as the ultimate level of power as you become untouchable as far as relationships and interactions with others is concerned, but what I have seen is that the same also leads you to live a boring and lonely existence, and some level of vulnerability and open-ness or percieved emotional response to others goes a long way into making others want to sunbathe in your presence because they seem to become comfortable in your private space when they seem to understand you, or feel safe around you. This for others seems to come only when you find a way to make them feel valued, and as far as emotions are concerned not being the rigid brick wall, that requires a wrecking ball to be demolished. Now that I see how valuable it is for others that you offer them some sense of security, with display of emotional open-ness, I also see the importance to still maintain a certain level of emotional independence, and have this emotional open-ness displayed, but keeping the rigid brick wall hidden/decorated to seem softer and less intimidating. People fear or are uncomfortable around what they don't understand, and you have to play by their rules or perception of what should be the norm if you are ever to build and foster relationships. My greatest challenge right now, is learning to do this and yet not be taken for a fool. I must say, it is easier said than done, but with some level of commitment to the task at hand, the possible rewards seem to out-weigh the bad. I have been doingalot of inward reflection over the past 2 months and I am hopeing that something good comes from being a little moresensitive to the needs of others around me, but may the force be with me, and help me to keep my head above water, and not drown in the emotional tempest or turmoil others seem to readily unleash once you have gained that trust. Goal: Influence and foster positive and meaningful relationships.

Nightmare of Moving Almost Over.

For those of you wondering what's new with me, I just moved on the 28th of February 2015. It has been quite an ordeal. I like the new place so far, it will do for now. It took almost 3 weeks for the electricity company to install my service, and the Phone and Internet services provider is dragging their feet even more, and have not to this day done the movers to the new place. I am currently back, though not in full capacity, as I still have to implement a secondary electrical supply, for when power goes out. For the time being guys, the best time to cam with me online will be in the morning up until 12 noon Eastern time. I will also try signing on in the evening after 8pm Eastern. It has been a rocky 3 weeks recovering from this move, but wish me luck. I hope that the best is yet to come, and shortly after I can implement HD quality video. Alot has happened over the past few weeks while I was offline, but not that much, as for the love life, I do not have much to report there, I am still single. Well, that's all for now. Thanks for stopping in and boosting today, see you online soon, and have fun!

Training Almost Over

Not much going on with me at this time, still in training at this new job, which is mad boring, but I try to stay as productive as I can. If I could have multiple orgasms at work that would make it ideal right? Lol Just kidding. I have been jerking off a little more than usually, I am usually a pretty free of sexual tension kind of guy, maybe it's the fact that Valentines Day just came, but for whatever reason, I had to take matters into my own hands several times this week, because 1 day of love making was just not enough. If all goes well, at the end of the month I move into a new apartment. I really need to stop moving all over the place, last year alone I moved twice, and I would really love to just find the right place. I have not really planned my moves carefully, which is why after several months I run into a need to move once more, but hopefully this time around it will be home sweet home. I am hoping to cam alot more often, once I can settle in, thanks for saying hi every now and then while I am offline, it's definitely a highlight for me.A cousin of mine advises me they need some music composed, original lyrics, with a 48 hour window to submit to them, for a family gathering as I will not be able to travel. I did not make that deadline, as little do they know, creativity is not something you can switch on and off at will. Hopefully I can get that done this upcoming week.I trust that all of you had a rather productive week, as I have.

Be My Valentine

Thank you guys for the love once more. I am settling into the new job just fine, at this time in the training phase, I hope to make it into production and start getting things cracking. Fortunate for me, I have a good trainer. Great things should come from this new project. The boys are as cute as ever, but oh so forbidden. I dare not get freaky on the job even though I often wish to just bend him over, and him, oohhh... and the other one too. The training class keeps making their gay jokes all day, every day, and I try not to get wrapped up in a rut. It was funny on day 1, and maybe day 2, but after a while it gets repetitive. Then again, straight men more often than not are very simple creatures when you put them all together in one box, very much predictable bunch. Besides that, I occasionally just enjoy the view from where I stand and that's about it.Valentines Day is here once more, and I'm sending a heart to fans who tip or boost during the contest. It feels great to be back, and I look forward to seeing you in my room standing at attention! ;)This Valentine's Day/Weekend I hope to make it special offline as well, with dinner and a movie. May we all get lucky and here's to the most passionate love making ever.Cheers,Daniel

1 Year Online & A Warm Welcome

The past week, to my pleasant surprise, was great for me on cam, and I hope it was for you guys as well. On the 14th I reached the 1 year online mark, placed 5 times in the top 10%, and 1 time in the top 5%, thanks to you guys. That has never happened before, and I consider it a big deal.Today starts a new week, and a new beginning for me. Now that I have started the day with some time with you guys online, it is off to prepare for the day ahead. It is Training Day 1 at a new job, and I am looking forward to making a great first impression. I have in fact not done well committing to both, hours of a regular 9-5 and cam, but will definitely put in more thought into coordinating both schedules.If all goes well today, there will be hugs and kisses at the end of the day with cute guys, an even hotter trainer, and maybe a little sweet eye or two. Then again, that may just be wishful thinking. Wish me luck, and here's to a better online cam experience! I have already created a list of sexy wear to get you guys. It has to be shipped in from the USA, so it will take a minute or two.Thank you guys for showing love these first days in January. This is definitely a great start to the year which leaves me more optimistic than before.xx,Daniel

Warm welcome, gym resolutions, and eye candy.

Four days back online, and you guys were sure to give me a very warm welcome, I appreciate that! There aren't many other places where you can feel appreciated so much as on here. Good news is that thanks to your help I was featured on page 1 of the site, which is a big deal for me. I just hope to make the shows more interesting, and engaging as time goes on. I guess that means more Google.I am back to the gym today. The forces of the universe know I don't have the discipline for that, but here goes another shot. Apparently everyone is working their upper body on a Monday, so I pretty much just went down a floor, to the dungeon, and did legs and abdominals. Mad sexy papis all around, of course I kept my composure. Half way through my workout, one self assigned personal trainer starts trying to push me to work out harder, he is like "Don't think about it" and I was like "30 seconds rest". I believe that's the standard (30-45 seconds between reps). Left to him I would probably sustain injuries lol. I'll get there, no rush, this is day 1 after a hiatus.There were quite a handful of interesting characters this past week in chat, and I am looking forward to some of my own fantasies being fueled on here, how weird is that? I am to fuel yours lol. Well, I don't have much to say other than thanks for receiving me back with open arms.

Downtime & Coding

Thanks for all the messages while offline guys, I really appreciate it.I have been trying to get some work done on my windows application, before I start working at my next big job. The biggest problem I have right now is staying put in front of a computer when I am back to work, so I am building software to work for me at home while I am not around. It is exciting, and I can't wait until it's fully functional. Wish me luck, and I will be finished by the end of this week.Like many of you, I have made a few new years resolutions this year, and hope they stay with me for a life time. One of those is more action. I often think, and think, then think some more. 2015 is my year, and hope to put many plans into action.For those of you who are on Twitter, don't forget to add me @DanielAlmonteVS and tweek me sweet nothings, I appreciate the gesture. I will be going online later in the week, hopefully tomorrow, it depends on how the sun rises.Stay sweet, I hope you enjoyed the Holiday Season just passed, and best wishes for 2015.Warm regards,Daniel Almonte

Ready? Let's go!

Today was excellent, I woke up horny, and the guys were just as ready to play as I was. Who doesn't like morning sex right? lol There were a few freaky requests, which if anything kept the chats a little more diverse and interesting.Thanks for hot wake-up guys and stay sweet.

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